I don’t understand the anger you seem to be projecting onto me. I’m sorry you felt it was a ‘cheap shot’, I would have told the same story regardless of the gender of the neighbour and I told it as it happened simply because I did not want it to appear that I had ‘stolen’ cats from an owner who cared for them. I am certainly not ‘man bashing’ and I’m quite honestly rather offended that my love for animals has somehow been dragged into a spiteful battle of the sexes I want no part of.