I’ve nodded my way through reading this piece, as I’ve been caring for my sick and disabled husband for the last ten years; raising a child who is now 17 and has has their own several challenges (health issues & ASD among them); have multiple chronic health problems myself and yes, also have a rescue dog who has separation anxiety. It’s utterly draining, even when things are going smoothly. We’re always home, don’t get trips or breaks away. I try to make our experience of being home as pleasant and easy as possible, but it’s constant, all day every day and I too am running on empty (have been for quite some time truth be told) and can’t manage to well up enthusiasm for much of anything. I’ve a couple of things in the pipeline which might help pick me up a little, but in the meantime I can take a glimmer of hope from your writing Elle, so thanks!