Not the same I know, but I've always been convinced that my kid has what used to be but no longer gets defined seperately as Aspergers. As A never went to school and we live life in a way that shifts to accommodate our quirks anyway, I never looked for a diagnoses for him. I'm fairly sure I probably dip over the edge of something similar myself.
Actually, if A had attended school, it's probable they may have tried out an ADHD label for him first, to be fair, as he was a child of constant movement.
I'm going to hop aboard and read along anyway, I reckon it's going to be good.