Oh absolutely, yes Annika. I understand what you mean about female autism being under represented, I have a couple of female friends who were diagnosed late in life, both of whom are academically minded and have given me in depth 'presentations ' on the subject (oh how did we not realise earlier eh?).
So I'm not disputing what you're saying about the coding on The Gilmore Girls. As I say, I've not seen any of it anyway. I was making the same point as you just did really. Fine lines.
Thanks again for writing about this, it's a fascinating subject.