Oh holy hell, I relate so much to this. I haven't seen Tangled, so I just watched the YouTube video you linked to......My throat tightened, my breathing got shallower, I began to feel the desire to just stop taking up space at all that I always felt around my mother. I haven't seen or spoken to my mother for nearly 20 years now - and I still have to fight every day against the voice in my head which parrots all the things she regularly said to me.