Thank you Lisa. Definitely Victim, but it takes such bravery to press charges against them - especially those you know. I never had the guts. I've only recently started telling anyone about my experiences - writing here and talking to a therapist, my nearest and dearest don't know (unless they're going against my wishes and reading my work here...).
Shame and guilt weigh so heavy, even though logically we might know we WERE the Victim.